We've been together for just under a year. Things are going really good and we have a lot of fun together.
However, both of us are going to take a lot of classes in fall semester. He takes his studies very seriously, and even got a part time job at the school. Recently he just got an offer to become a manger of a store, which he is going to take as a job too.
I'm glad he got all these great things going for him. However, even during this past school year when he was busy with just school and no jobs, I felt pretty stressed as I felt like he wasn't into me at all. He assures me that he was and just is trying to get good grades, but regardless it makes me feel super stressed.
I'm thinking that considering next semester not only will he be super busy but I will be as well, making it nearly impossible to coordinate our schedules, it may be better to just break it off in advance. Sort of quick & painless.
Thoughts on what I should do?
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Or you could simply work on it.
It sounds to me like you probably didn't have a lot going on last semester, so you felt like you should be giving more to the relationship, while he was stressed with working hard.
This year it sounds like you'll have something to do that could take your mind off that and it'll give you an idea of what was actually going through his head last semester.
If you really like him, don't let something as small as your schedule ruin the relationship for you. Just be secure about you and him. The only thing right now that's threatening to come between the two of you right now is yourself as far as you know. Just try to be happy. So long as he's a good guy and treats you right, and you actually do like him/are attracted to him, no reason why you shouldn't just try to make it work despite your schedules. :)0