This is going to be long, bear with me. I dated a man a tad over a month. We were exclusive and saw each other a lot. He was going through a nasty divorce. His ex cheated on him during their marriage multiple times. He has 2 very little boys with her and it was tearing him apart emotionally not having them with him everyday. I held him while he cried over them. He claimed he hated his ex. The thought of her moving back in make him sick. He said he would never ever get back with her. Last weekend after our 4th of July camping trip we kind of had a misunderstanding and red flags starting popping up all over the place for me. I broke up with him once we got back in town. 4 days later I get a FB message from his ex asking if we were split up because he wanted to try to work things out with her. I contacted him and told him I do not want any of them contacting me anymore and good luck. He then replied that I had deleted him off of FB and so why does it matter? He was also mad that I had blocked him. I unfriended him because I did not want to see his posts and did not block him until I received a message from her. Question is? Why is he mad that I unfriended him? Why would that matter if you are trying to work things out with your wife? And do you think, once he realizes it isn't going to work with her--he will contact me again? Not sure I even want him to--but I always try to figure out what will happen next.
My ex is trying to get his ex before me back?
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I don't think he's worth your time. Sounds to me like he can't make up his mind and if his ex doesn't want him back then he'll go back to you. don't be a 2nd choice, just move on completely from him, it isn't worth the bs.0
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