I'm seriously considering going to Germany for a 6 month apprenticeship. My ex IM'd me a few weeks ago around the time i had my birthday. I told him about Germany and he's saying that he wants to see me before I go.
I'm calling his bluff. But I don't know if I should allow it to happen. He said he'll fly out here to see me since he lives in a different state. But I don't know if this would be a good idea. He said the break up was really hard on him but that he would not be sad if he saw me. I told him that I'm not going to hook up with him. He said he realizes that and he won't expect me to. Said he just wants to be friends.
Should I allow this to happen? I'm leaning on the side of no.
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Tell him no, you've clearly moved on with your life, he doesn't seem to have, so don't give him false hope, say no, go to germany and eventually he'll move on. Good luck in germany.0