Yesterday morning I wrote my ex a assertive & sincere message about how I believe that the situation between us has be lingering entirely too long and that I believe that we should have face to face conversation about the issues between us.
My ex waited an hour or so and sent me a text saying "I'm really busy right now. I'll let you know. Hope you are doing well"
Am I being an ass by not replying to this extremely vague & bitchy text?
Most Helpful Girl
Well if she's busy, she's busy... sometimes you don't have time for chit chat over the phone. But I agree. To give you a yes or no answer shouldn't have been too difficult. Perhaps she needs time to think things through? Like sometimes you want to think about something so as to give a better answer and have a better judgement. She could have been occupied and having many thoughts. So she thought it be better to gain some perspective on it. I say, don't reply. There's no need to. She said she'll let you know so it's on her to reply now and give a time or date. If she doesn't then write her off. You tried.
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Most Helpful Guy
No you're not being an ass, you said what you needed to say so just leave it at that. Maybe she'll text you later and if not just leave it and don't worry about her anymore