I'm wondering if she will ever contact me again? Think if we will get back together? What is she thinking and going through her mind? Thankyou so much for all your advice! 😊
- She's gone forever
- She will come back to me
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First off, I'll answer your questions and then give explanations as to why I wrote what I did!
1) I can't say that she won't contact you, because she may just make up her mind, call you and beg you to come back to her. many times girls are going to do this because she finally realized that she made a mistake and is calling you to make amends. and then to get back together.
2) No, I don't think that you guys will ever get back together. When time is taken off from a relationship, their are many things that are done on both sides. Whether it be having fun, making out, having sex, going to bars, etc… she's not going to tell you and you aren't going to tell her anything. so their will always be a doubt in each others minds about the other. Also if she told you she isn't happy with your relationship with her, why would you want to go back and make her… "UN-happy". Doesn't make any sense. (P. S. she was unhappy because she realized that she wasn't going to be able to have the "college experience" of getting shit faced.)
3) She's thinking exactly what she told you, that she " wants to go have fun with her friends, wants to party, wants to get wasted and have fun, she doesn't want to feel tied down and that she hasn't been happy for months". She told you everything she wanted. And when she got it, she regretted it. Because you are most likely an awesome person, and were probably a great guy.
I think, you would be better off just moving on and finding someone who isn't going to leave you to have fun. Its all a load of BS. You deserve better.