He keeps constantly making it clear that he still has feelings for me. He bought me a piece of jewelry recently and he keeps asking if he can send it to me (he lives in a different area). He'll tell me little things like, "Did I ever tell you how much I love you?" and all that, but I just want him to let go and find someone else. See a recent question -- he's STILL trying to guilt me back into the relationship.
I'm just not into him, but he won't let go.
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You need to cut off contact altogether. I've been through a similar situation myself with an ex girlfriend, and trust me it is hard but it works and he will get the message.
Next time he contacts you, politely tell him to stop and that you do not want to hear from him anymore, state that this is the last time you will speak with him and end it there. Switch your phone off/change your number, delete him off any social media and just break your routine. It's called the No Contact rule, do a Google search there is plenty on it.
My ex refused to accept the fact that I broke up with her and eventually through doing these actions she got the message. Good luck.0