anyways not sure how I can get over this or get these thoughs out of my head of her being with this guy. its starting to bug me
Most Helpful Girl
if u broke up with someone, thats it its done. she has no obligation to u and u have none to her. u are free to move on and find a life partner. u broke up for a reason if u can't be with her then remind urself why.
Most Helpful Guy
You absolutely have to stop thinking about that. She's moved on, you have to too. As hard as it may be you need to forget about that part of your relationship and focus on your future. I'm in exactly the same boat as you (only she found her new guy before ditching me). She isn't your property and she will do as she pleases. All you can do is move on, or at least find a distraction in the mean time. You said you've already met some new girls, so you're already doing better than a lot of guys.