So me and my ex are always on and off, but we always have loved eachother, it's either when I want it she doesn't want it or when she wants it I don't want it. We both have this special connection that we know we don't feel with anybody else. But my ex is scared to get back together because she doesn't want to get hurt again. She says she still loves me and that I'm her first love and everything but is scared and she left me. The Same day she left me I tried calling her at least 10 times because she left me in a text, I at least wanted to hear it from her but she never called me back. I know she is ignoring my calls. It's been 3 days since we've talked I haven't contacted her and I'm not planning to but I'm not sure if she is finally moving on. Usually we know one of us is coming back but I don't know anymore...
Most Helpful Girl
I broke up with first love over a text after 3 years. I expected him to do what you did but instead he texted me back and said he agreed. I was so hurt. I was depressed for months. It took me a year to start dating again and about 3 years to finally get over the idea of "us". It was the hardest thing to go through. I now know what heartache really is but I have never been happier with myself. I have fallen in love for the second time and it's so much different. Words can't explain what I feel now but this new love is what finally made me realize that it's true. You will always love and care about your first love. I will always wish the best for him. But what I have now is so precious that sometimes I almost forget that heartache that I once felt. The scary part is risking that heartache again. Best wishes to the both of you.0
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Most Helpful Guy
Just going to give you a quick tip bro.. I didn't do the NC rule when my ex wanted space because she text me to get a reaction during that time.. Give her space and time to miss you man. If she really does love you then she will be back.. Not to mention every time I ended it with someone I had regrets at the end so its sorta good that she ended it because now its all on her.. Stay active and positive and have fun bro! If she sees that then that will eat her alive!0