How to get her off my mental pedestal. How do I forget true first love?

10 year relationship. First love. I believed true love.
She cheated. It is over. How do I get her off my mental pedestal?

Now every time I see a beautiful woman, I fail even approaching them, because in my mind it is like:

"Nope, that is not her. She is the wrong one."

I tried making a list of all her failures, but it doesn't change my feelings. I love her.

What do I do now?
I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life.
Help please?


Most Helpful Guy

  • Time... you need time. And as much fun with your friends as possible. Never say no to any invite. Be Mr. Yesman.


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