I had gotten my ex pregnant. I stepped up and bought her an engagement ring and we set a wedding date. She decided to breakup with me while she was four months pregnant. She gave me the ring back a month later and she had me feel her stomach which grew a good amount in a month. Then she told me she was talking to her old boyfriend and wanted to raise our baby with him and said she was moving out of state to be with her family so they could help her. She called me two months later and said she had a stillbirth. She then came back with his ashes and the death certificate. We had a memorial and she was completely broken. That was all two years ago and she just apologized and also confessed she lied about being on birth control and she left because felt guilty.
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Wow, that's really sad. I'm very sorry to hear that, my condolences.
It sounds like she went through a really hard time, and whether or not she deserves your forgiveness... I think you should forgive her. She has probably already torn herself apart and hurt herself with this, over the past two years, to be vindicated. I think it would be kindest to forgive her. It might also be good for you to try to part with some of the pain and anger, to move forward with a lighter heart.
But do what feels right to you.0