Most Helpful Girl
Don't ask, and do not worry. Girls go over this stuff in their heads, but very rarely is the heartfelt stuff combined with actual action (at least I think from my own psychology). I've gotten into sad moods and written apologetic letters to burned out past relationships, but really had no interest in speaking to or seeing those dudes again. The flirty, happy, playful feelings are the ones you want to watch out for, not the sad nostalgic ones.