Above is my original question. Today I had to meet my ex because I needed her to finish a web design project she is doing for me (it started when we were dating... I'm paying her to finish it). She has been very indifferent since we broke up... but when we met in person she was cold... ice cold. I have never ever seen her act this way when we were dating... even when she was angry at me.
So she's moved on. However at the end of the conversation I said "i do miss talking to you"... which is the truth. She smiled a little bit... but said "I've talked to exes in the past... its usually not a good idea".
So I'm guessing I just need to man up and move on?
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Maybe it is time to move on, but not rush into a moving on train. From what I read you only took it slow, and that's a really good thing! Not many men do that! But you did, if you move on, maybe she'll miss you, but you have every right to be happy, and look for someone who deserves your attention and someone who will give you their attention. I know it's really, and I mean REALLY hard to move on, but do it. Take it by baby steps, show her that you're not sad and miserable! Which you're not. You should at least try, Good luck! (:0