We had an 8 year relationship, she had to move to another country and we were going to get married so I could get the documents to live there too, but I acted needy and jealous out of no reason and didn't show any commitment to our plans (like saving money or studying something). After a month of fight she broke up with me and I've been in NC for 3 weeks now.
So, I posted a photo of myself with my dog. Im the guy who never (no joke) never smiles. But this time, I was smiling at the photo with my dog.
Almost inmediatly she posted "Im so surprised that people can change" and "Karma hit me back". I thought she might be overreacting until a friend of us sent me a voice message from her.
In this message she told to my friend, in a voice tone that seemed confused, complaining almost "offended". She literally said ; "OMG, whos THAT guy? he's not my EX BF!! what happened? Where my EXGF is? TELL ME? WHY IS THIS HAPPENNING? Thats not him... THATS NOT HIM!! "
I dont know if I should take this as interest, but to be honest, even If i love her and I wanna get back with her, this seemed pretty stupid to me. I mean, IT WAS JUST A PHOTO WITH MY DOG...
I kinda think that this hit her in her EGO, and that might be the reason... because I was really deppressed the first 2 weeks but now I just dont talk to her and barely log on FB.
Any insights would be appreciated.
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She is hurt that you are happy - or seem to be happy. Trust me, I went a little crazy when my ex posted the first picture of him happy with his friends - he would never take pictures with me and when he did he was never happy about it. It just hurts her that you never smiled in your relationship and now all the sudden you are smiling and looking happy.0