We had an 8 year relationship, she had to move to another country and we were going to get married so I could get the documents to live there too, but I acted needy and jealous out of no reason and didn't show any commitment to our plans (like saving money or studying something). After a month of fight she broke up with me and I've been in NC for 3 weeks now.
So, I posted a photo of myself with my dog. Im the guy who never (no joke) never smiles. But this time, I was smiling at the photo with my dog.
Almost inmediatly she posted "Im so surprised that people can change" and "Karma hit me back". I thought she might be overreacting until a friend of us sent me a voice message from her.
In this message she told to my friend, in a voice tone that seemed confused, complaining almost "offended". She literally said ; "OMG, whos THAT guy? he's not my EX BF!! what happened? Where my EXGF is? TELL ME? WHY IS THIS HAPPENNING? Thats not him... THATS NOT HIM!! "
I dont know if I should take this as interest, but to be honest, even If i love her and I wanna get back with her, this seemed pretty stupid to me. I mean, IT WAS JUST A PHOTO WITH MY DOG...
I kinda think that this hit her in her EGO, and that might be the reason... because I was really deppressed the first 2 weeks but now I just dont talk to her and barely log on FB.
Any insights would be appreciated.
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Sounds like she's upset that as a man who never smiles, you are smiling so soon after the breakup. Yes she took it as a blow to her ego. She assumes you are happier now without her. And that probably stung a lot.2