Recently I discovered my EX-boyfriend had another girl friend besides me. All the days he was ignoring me he was out with her, and buying her things, and kissing her. His excuse to me was that in order to make sure he wanted me he needed to date around and try out other girls. Mind you, we were going out for 8 months now and I was very deeply in love with him. He was my first boyfriend and he really messed me up. Now I just don't know what to do. Of course I left that little shit head but I just feel really unsure of my love life. At this point the idea of finding an even better guy who can really show me what being loved feels like, excites me but I just can't seem to find any hope that that will happen! My heart is torn in two and honestly I can't even imagining giving it out to a whole new guy. I'm sure that these are normal feelings for someone going through this type of situation but I feel hopeless. What do I do?
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Same thing happened to me and it bothered me for 2 years. Try to find something to do to take your mind off it. I started to weight lift to make my ex regret cheating on me because I'm more attractive than her current boyfriend. But honestly, only time will heal this as it won't be easy. This happens to everybody who gets out of their first relationship.2