Most Helpful Guy
First of all, if you have brothers or a father, have one of them kick his ass. Any man that leavs his wife pregnant is a complete and utter ass. HE has traded "down" with this bimbo and I can assure you it is mainly about sex and not wanting the responsibility. I have to ask this, for my own understanding, why do so many of you younger women have babies with me who do not marry you. IF the man will not marry you and make a legal, if not moral, committment, why are you surprised when they walk away? Society can only thrive if most families are intact and dedicated to each other. This is not about morality, it is about responsibility to the greater good.
On a more practical note - get child support from him. If you can't afford a lawyer, there are legal aid programs to help you.
Guys who do this kind of thing need to be castrated. I was raised in NY. My father's generation of first-generation Italian-Americans would not allow this thing to go on. IF the man wanted a girl friend on the side, so long as he took care of his family, it was overlooked, but abandoning a family was worse than murder.
Most Helpful Girl
He a jerk. Im sorry he did that. But I deff make sure he helps you with these kids they come 1st not his gf the kids are 1st always. I know this mist be hard for you even more so now you'll have 2 kids so your ex better man up and do the right thing for your kids. I dont know if hell come came or change but as hard as it is its best to see it over so you dont hope on to anything to just get hurt again. The girl is just selfish and not worth your time or anything.