Ok well a couple months ago my partner broke up as there was lots of arguments and stress ( we had recently relocated to a small town for his work) He had in his mind he didn't want me working full time/ driving 50 min each way to the closest big town for work and wanted me to work from home/ in the small town. alass this was not as easy as i believe he thought. Of course financially we were fine but would be better off if i was working and i wanted to go back to work ( had held a well paying job for over 5 years)
Two months before I packed and walked out the door he became cold and distant, Would drink a LOT and became verbally nasty ( of course the next day he sometimes would remember what he said sometimes not) I tried to talk to him to see what was going on/ What i may have done etc but he just shut me out more.
Ok well the night before i left he came to bed wrapped me in a big hug and when i looked up he was crying. ( i had told him that night i was leaving in the morning)
Since I've been gone we have had things like house/items/bank accounts to sort out so we have had a little communication.
What im really wanting to make sense of is while talking one day about the house he kept calling me babe/honey/love, He also said he missed what we had and hoped in time we could try again. didn't react to it but it made me think about things. ( Were a 2 hour fight away on two separate islands now)
Couple days later he text again asking me to call, which i did. during this call he told me he still cares.
20 min after ending the call i get a text saying "sent you two emails xx" ( Yess i now what the emails were for and i was expecting them but the xx on the end?
Then in the early hours of this morning i get a text saying " Hope you are ok"
Can ANYONE make any sense of this? Is he regretting his actions ( Yes im also to blame) or just trying to get a reaction out of me?
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I don't quite understand the question - it seems simple, he still loves you and cares for you and misses you.
Drinking was probably a way to try mentally 'hide' from a stressful situation - moving, new job, and relationship trouble all at once is a very high-stress combination.
Whether or not you should go back to him is another question of course.1
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