Just got broken up with today after a near two month relationship. She claimed she has deep depression and it's getting worse. She said that the relationship will end because she doesn't get happiness from anything and eventually it will destroy us.
She said will be going back to school full / part time along with trying to fix her family and take care of her old grandfather.
She also claimed that she jumped into the relationship too fast but when she said I love you at the week mark she meant it.
She also said I was too nice for her , too kind and compassionate and that all these negative traits about her
To me it says every excuse in the book , in my opinion you will always make room in your life if you really care for them.
I have been stockpiled in my room crying all day and if she wasn't at work i'm sure she would be doing the same. (Considering she called me and said she cried for 2 hours before work)
She says that once she improves herself she wishes to get back together but doesn't know how long it will take.
What do I do here? I really truly care for this girl might I say love.
The thought of her being lost to me has had me mentally distraught all day.
I fall in love way too fast
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She has depression
She has a sick grandmother
She has school
She has a job
She has family to take care of
And you think that she's making up excuses. Its clear that this woman has problems, massive emotional problems. And it is clear that you do too.
Obviously there is a ton on her plate and she's probably reaching a breaking point that cannot handle the responsibility of being in a romantic relationship at the moment.
Your best bet would be to keep your distance and be available as a friend since she has so much shit going on at the moment (only if you are emotionally capable of handling not pushing boundaries and being supportive without expecting Romance as payment for your good deed)
If you can't handle being friends, then you're going to have to move on and find someone else.0