How do you get over a break up with someone you really care about?
What Girls Said 7
I'm sorry. It's funny how life works out sometimes. Sometimes who or what you want isn't good for you. The first step of getting over a breakup is accepting it. Just know that it wasn't you who did the messing up and this was your first relationship. You never know, Maybe you'll find another girl in the military. Maybe she'll have more similar interests. You sound like a wonderful guy. She's missing out.2
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It takes time to get over a break up but trust me this is not the end of the world. There are still millions of people you can meet out there. Just forget about the whole thing and spend time with your friends, try random activities, just do whatever to keep your mind off this. Life goes on mate!3
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It takes time, for me it took about 5 months to get over my ex and realize what I truly deserve. I had actually broken up with him back in August 2013 and for 5 months it was no contact or anything whatsoever. And then in January 2014 he came back and then broke up with me in March 2014. Its like being chewed up and then getting spit out. It hurt me a lot, it was kind of like a bullet in my heart. And the break up really hit me by surprise. It took time for me to heal, and it wasn't easy. But I managed to pull through and I was so proud of myself. I kind of blame myself cause I was stupid to go back to him when I should've kept walking but I did learn a lesson. Don't keep running back to someone that you need to run away. I've healed now and so happy and finally know what I deserve in a relationship. And not just some boy who treats me like I'm a dog and can't even lift a finger for me. Sometimes the person you want isn't the person you deserve to be with. For everyone getting over an ex isn't easy. It is hard at first I will admit, but it takes small steps to get over it. I believe that there is someone out there for everybody you just have to go out there and find them. Get to know people, don't open up to them so quickly cause in the end you might just get hurt. Distract yourself, hang out with your friends, explore the world and go out and meet new people.1
Keep yourself busy, get closure, do something that makes you happy, for me what helps is volunteering at a rest home, it's actually pretty fun, especially because it's easy to find someone who you care about without it having to be romancy. I'm sorry if things aren't going well for you.0
Try to be busy all the time by doing things u like , hanging out with friends , working or whatever just to get ur mind a way of thinking in her , try to find another girl , in time u'll move on0
I usually just think,
Well if I was that important and really meant something to them that they wouldn't break up with me and it's probably good that they did because honestly I'd rather it now than the future where things get more serious and I'm thinking about actually starting a family with the guy. They don't always do it for the best but more selfish reasons you could say. Then after some logical tv I usually snuggle in my couch and listen to some 90's love song's or slow jams and watch friends, that usually does the trick for me.0
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