My ex broke up with me bc he felt like I desire too much attention! He felt like I changed! Maybe I did! I have had some life changes happen since we started to date! I have had my brother killed, my mother has taken ill, & my cousin taken his life! On top of that my car breaks down, I'm a mother of a teenager, n I manage restaurants. Besides the mother n job that comes with the territory! But when I needed him as far as just to talk I couldn't have him. Why? Because he was too busy tending to his sisters needs which they decided to move in with him. Now he's taking care of them & him. There are the oldest! Yes I complained & fussed but nothing changed cause he says those are his sisters! I told him that I was tired & I needed him too. His response was he don't know what to do! Days would go by & I didn't hear from him. And then he text to check on me! I mentioned to him again that I was becoming fed up! He stated that we both were going through & things happen doesn't mean he doesn't care any less about me! But I told him from time to time I need him! He broke up with me stating he needed to get his folks straight before he could be with me so he would rather break up handle his business & then come back! That hurt me cause I'm like why we can't be there for each other! He said cause I desire too much attention & that I expect him to drop everything he is doing just to be here with me! I told him well u dropping me to be there for them what's the difference! It ended just like that! Tonight I was stranded at work. I called him & he was willing to come take me home! I finally found a way so he wouldn't have to make that long drive! But of course he called & I told him I was headed home! He told me to call as soon as I got in! I did! He sounded concerned! He listened to me cry cause it's like everything is crashing around me. Then I told him goodnight! He said for me to call him tomorrow. Not sure if I should. Advice please!!!
- Should I just give space & see if he comes back?Vote A
- Should I be more so of the fact that I expect him to be by my side?Vote B
- Should I just give up on it all & move on?Vote C