So this woman and I have been together for about 2 years, we had a child together and at first were deeply in love it felt like it was meant to be.
However towards the end of the relationship I had started to become stressed out, I ended up wanting to play video games more than spend time with my family and I had not realized it till it was too late.
She left to stay with her friend and said she needs time to focus on the baby and her.
At first i freaked out called her constantly and made all of the mistakes such as being needy and what not. She says she still loves me but needs space. I giving it to her, last time i saw her and my daughter she found out i wasn't eating and bought me a shit ton of groceries and even hugged me and let me kiss her, In her eyes it looked like she actually enjoyed the kiss i got the same look from her when we used to be affectionate.
However with all of this said im afraid its too late i had been needy for a week straight and im scared i pushed her away for good possily closer to a different man. Someone please help any advice would help. I told her i sell my computer to show her she means more than stupid frikkin video games. She said she would maybe one day try to come back to me and work things out but recently i had tried to get into her Facebook to see if she was talking to another man and she found out it was me. Did that cause my chances of ever having my family back to go away completely?
Most Helpful Girl
Oh man, it's really obvious that you think the world of her and that you want her and your daughter back.. I can almost hear your broken heart from here! I suppose the best thing to do is speak with her and ask her where you're at, ask her to confirm that she still loves you and that you're both working towards the same goal: getting your family back together, now, I doubt very much she left for no reason or because you were playing games too often, there has to be more to it than that, so you need to find that out. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, that won help you, your gf or the baby. You need to look at your life as if it is a fresh, blank page. From this day onwards you need to be pro active and positive, if you don't have a job, get looking, if the house and you look a mess, tidy it up, look after yourself, eat properly and show her you are responsible. Then get talking, male sure you see have access to your daughter, let her know how much you want them back and how hard you are willing to work for it... I do hope it all works out for you...1
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Most Helpful Guy
Well its obvious that she still loves you and you love her and your daughter so just text her each day and see how she is and how your child is doing them after a few days if your comfortable make a romantic scene like ask her to meet you and buy her something that she loves that only you and her really know about like a piece of jewellery that she said she really likes and make sure to put it on a teddy bear (all girls love teddy bears) then take her back to yours and have a whole romantic time with candles and dimmed lights and cook her favourite food and play her favourite music (as long as it's not heavy metal you will be good) but I hope it works out all right and his luck if you take my advice0