Ok so my ex me that he's not going to lie to me that he still likes me and he's still in love with me. He aslo said his feeling get stronger for me when he dose not see me every day ( we used to live together). But when u feel that way about someone how can u not know what you want? I don't know what to think anymore about any of this.
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agree with most of Mrteddybear said
without knowing the basis for the break up my opinion is mostly speculation. the big question I would have for the ex is; is he just missing what he had OR does he truly realize that what he had is what he wanted? Often times after a break up despite there being a legit reason for the break up we (humans) look back fondly and sort of nostalgically on the relationship. we miss the intimacy, companionship, sex, etc and we kind of trick ourselves into thinking that the missing what you had is actually desire to rekindle that.
If he seems to not know what he wants then my feeling is he is sort of just missing the relationship but not necessarily wanting to be in that exact relationship. I would just sort of tread lightly. Try to gauge (or ask) his true feelings and figure out if he truly wants to reconcile or just misses the relationship and thus has convinced himself that he wants the relationship0