Do you believe in second chances in love?

I was hurt so bad with a guy i love because he had a white woman whom he claims wants to help him he showed me all kinds of bad things in my life. he blocked me every including phone calls never replied my text. i found out i was pregnant i told him but he never replied i spent sleepless nights crying and finally terminated the baby.. it hurt me but i had to do it. i was so weak thought of taking my life but God was ever watching got inspiration from internet and a book my sister sent me power of a praying woman it gave me strength and finally i let go. its been a while now and i got his text that he wants me back and he doesn't want to loose me we forget what happened but he still has the white lady. i love him yes but i don't know what to do or think. please help.

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  • no. if u hurt me to an extent where i leave u once, u no longer deserve me. why i say that is because it takes a lot for me to leave a man. i make excuse after excuse to stay and give him the benefit of the doubt, so if i leave, I'm at my wits end basically.
    im a woman of dignity. if a man really wants me, he'll learn how to treat me. its what i deserve. i have so so much to offer a man, but if he's a dick then of course I'm not let tin him even touch my heart again.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Ok, can you first explain what or who is the "white lady"? and why do you refer to this person like that. Also, it will help if you state what country are you in? And what do you mean he still has the white lady? Is he married or living with her? Why is she in the picture?

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    • Am from Kenya and am black.. his not married and the lady is from Netherlands

    • Im am sorry but there is a language barrier here but regardless, don't go back to him, he sounds like bad news and then some.

  • well i belive love is only one time BUT, u can't easilly fall in love with someone when they don't to u ! so i think that u talk about it's not LOVE, just some feeling :)

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  • i think love is one of the few things deserving second time.
    i told a girl i like her but she didn't like me, but if she someday come to me, i would give her a second time i think :)

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What Girls Said 3

  • you tried to contacted him before, he ignored you, and he suddenly wants you back but he is with the other woman? i don't think you should give him a second chance or anything after what he has done to you.

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    • Thanks i wish i could do that overnight and wake a new person.

  • Second chances yes, third chances... not so much.

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  • If it was me he would never get back into my life.

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