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Well, she's not playing fair considering that she's not giving you a yes or no answer. I'd honestly try to get the conversation towards clarifying that situation because you can't simply put your life on hold for this stuff.1
Well, she's not playing fair considering that she's not giving you a yes or no answer. I'd honestly try to get the conversation towards clarifying that situation because you can't simply put your life on hold for this stuff.
If you guys TRULY love each other then fight for you guys relationship. Let her know you want her and will do anything to be with her and keep her. You guys have to learn to not only just stay together but to communicate through the rough patches and whatever issues come up because you will down the road think WHAT IF... i got her back... WHAT IF... i tried harder would we be together? It doesn't matter who fault it is work on the relationship TOGETHER.
There is a large distance between you too... I think that you should consider if you play your cards and court her to see if you too ca work out again, will you be able to move back to GA? - after a relationship like yours, 3years - 2 of them living together, no one gets over that soo fast. The argument needs to obviously be settled - if you'd like to share details on that perhaps GAG can help. If you love her - make it work... Ask her on a date... Spend a weekend in GA.
Sigh I'll admit us girls are a) very confusing (b) like to daydream and wish we had prince charming in our lives
Maybe she thinks that you don't like her back, that you've moved on. Did you tell about how you feel about her now? I think she's confused too so she's telling you she still loves you and you'll always be in her heart but since now she thinks you don't share the same feelings with her, she'll try to move on. Either that or she's trying to see your reaction to if you truly love her or don't want to let go of her.
So the question is how do you feel about her now?
If you still love her then TELL HER for crying out loud but if you have totally moved on then I guess you should just tell her that its fine with you if she starts dating again and hope that you guys can stay as friends. Try not to hurt her feelings though, she does seem quite the sensitive one. Hope that was helpful in some way.
Oh hun i understand. Give her time. And if she seems like she's moved on and she's happy, as much as it hurts, seeing her happy must brighten you up just a tad. But if things dont work out just go on to being friends. Who know you guys might just need time. My last relationship was for 3 years we broke up and got back together 6 mounths after. Feel better hun :)
Sounds like too much drama and confusion. If a girl wants to be with you, she will tell you. She seems like she is playing a weird game. She probably likes that you love her, knows you would commit any time and doesn't want to lose that, but at the same time doesn't want to fully commit herself to you. If she truly loved you, she wouldn't feel the need to date this other guy. As hard as it is to accept, and much easier said than done, I think you need to find another girl who won't play these games with you. A girl who will work with you and commit herself to you without confusion or question.
yes book the flight sounds like love to me but she could just be hurt still and saying she's going on a date with someone else just to make you jealous or to see if you care you fixing it in person is what she needs to see is that you cared enough to travel across the world lol almost across the world to see her she still loves you just stay loyal and committed to her and do right by her until you can go out there and sort things in person and speak from the heart and tell her how much you care about her and how badly you wanna make this work with her everything will be fine when you guys stay close and work throughout your guys issues it will make your relationship stronger try not to fight with her the best thing to do is stay calm until she's calm and talk about it or drop it until the next day then talk about it but also before you get mad try seeing it in her perspective or just say sorry just to avoid conflict in ur relationship
Why did you guys break up?
she's probably tired of being "friends" who still love each other, she seems to love you and the fact that she said she's not over the argument could mean she wants to sit and talk about it so u guys can be over with it and get back together
oooooor she could be making it up as u said to see what youd do, if u really do love her enough and ul realize it when u know there's a chance of losing her. id say resolve whatever the argument that caused the breakup was and see where things go from thee. 5 months is a long time to be friends with someone you love and know that they love you back. best of luck :)
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