I have been dating this guy who says he is in a up and down relationship. So we both said it was love at first sight. He doesn't have a car or drivers License so I drive and pick him up. He is trying to get back on his feet. I have tried to help but he shuts me out. When he is with me he party's every night comes here around 3 takes a shower we have sex and he back at it with the boys. He says when he is with her they don't talk and they are in 2 different rooms but he is there. I must admit I have been arguing with him about spending more time with me. He said he would and the night he was supposed to he went hung out with the guys and came home about 130. I asked him could we talk for 10 minutes and he hollered I have to go I found out he was with the boys so I got upset about it. The next day he said he didn't want to be with me anymore because I was drama because I wanted to spend time he didn't have. I asked him did he really want us to end but he won't respond to my texts so I think he is really done. What should I do what did I do wrong
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Ok. I myself am like 22 and have not had a girl even an ugly one bat an eye on me. Hell I have had ugly ones even give that disgusted look at me, when someone jokes about her dating me and I am like do you even look in a mirror.
Anyways, that being said. As desperate I am. I am not going to endure that type of bull crap from someone. Even if after so long I finally get one. If she is like in anyway like the guy you described. It ain't worth it. I have been alone for well literally my whole life. So screw it. It ain't worth it. I already know how to be alone.
The wrong on your part is even bothering about this guy at all. I mean come on, he comes around 3 takes a shower, has sex and he is out? I mean are you kidding me? I mean how, hell more so. Why even bother with this guy.
This guy doesn't seem like he is getting back on his feet. He just seems like an ass. Screw him. you are better off all alone and miserable than waste your time with an ass... who obviously isn't making you feel any better.1