I just recently broke up with my girlfriend. I am big on freedom and even though I was upset i let her go. The only problem i had with the break up was the fact that she wanted me to hang around a place where our mutual friends hang out because she "didn't want everyone to hate her". She actually asked me to be in a place where i could potentially run into her just so SHE could feel comfortable!
When she made this request I originally accepted it because we were in a public place and i don't like yelling in public, but when i got home i quickly began getting angry about the situation and talked to my friends about the situation. One of my friend's girlfriend got wind of the fact that i was angry and informed my ex of the conversation.
She texts me that she can't believe i got angry about her request and I called her and yelled at her telling her I had a right to be angry, she had no right to be mad at how I responded to the break up and that I wouldn't be in contact with her anymore (Note: I never yelled at her before this). after the conversation she seems genuinely hurt for the first time since we broke up. I delete her from facebook, delete her messages and genuinely intend to move on.
A couple of days go by and I get a text claiming that she was really hurt by what I said and she can't believe that everyone is angry with her.
My questions are: 1. Why is she mad when she is the one that broke up with me?
2. Why would she want me to stick around when she said she didn't love me?
3. Why does she think I would care she is hurt when it was HER idea to break up?
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I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, You First Sentence Is "iJust Recently Broke Up With My Girlfriend" But Your First Question Is "Why Is She Mad When She Is The One That Broke Up With Me?" So Im Confused. Second, She Might Not Love You But Her Feelings For You Are Still Strong & She Wants Your Presence Around, She Is Not Fully Ready To Let Go. Third, Even Tho You Guys Broke Up She Still Wants You To Beg, Talk, & Want Her Back, Dont Give Her That, Continue Living Your Life Happily (Even If You aren't Happy.) iDont Know Who Broke Up With Who But iSuggest Cutting All Contact & Moving On. Stay Positive & Keep Your Head Up...0