My girl friend of 3 years broke up with me the other day, because she said she doesn't care enough anymore and doesn't have enough time and energy wants to be on her own. Which i am still very hurt by!
But my problem is that about a year ago she was looking for a flat she didn't want to move in with me which was ok, but i made the mistake when some of my long time close friends (guys and girls) who live locally had a room going. So i told them she was looking for a flat (not really thinking of this day).
This was fine because i could see my friends as well as her when i visited and we would all hang out it was fun. She didn't have a lot of her own friends so this made her happy and she likes it there which was good.
But now that we have broken up and i don't want to "just be friends" with her so soon after breaking up i need some time. which means i can't even visit my friends anymore.
This i find unfair!
I told her i can't make her move but if she respect my space it would be the right thing to do. She said she "doesn't want to move out because she likes it there". and is more upset about the prospect of moving out that then breaking up with me.
Is it unfair of me to ask her to move?
please help a confused and hurt guy shed some light on this.
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I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, You can't Make Her Move Out So Accept It, When You Go To Your Friends House You Dont Have To Talk To Her (iKnow It Would Be Awkward) Or Even Pay Attention To Her, But She Isn't Wrong For Not Moving Out...0