Even after all the hints that we are not compatible, his emotional cheating, everything that has happened. We broke up a lot throughout the 9 years we've been together. Why is it so hard to just walk away? I feel so dependent on him. I can't imagine life without him. I have a mental breakdown and cry endlessly thinking about breaking up with him.
Most Helpful Guy
The relationship ended. However, your love, emotional attachment, and emotional dependency, not to mention the imprint it has left on you, continues on until they, as well, will come to an end or drastically impact you. Thus, if you dwell, that is, constantly, you will likely perpetuate the healing process.1
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Most Helpful Girl
I've been with my guy for almost three years and recently he's been treating me like he doesn't care, taking me for granted, being a jerk and wanting more than he's putting into our relationship. People tell me I should leave and that they wouldn't put up with it but I can't leave and I just deal with it. I love him yes but I can't see myself walking away either. So I know how u feel. As girls we become really emotionally attached and we put all of ourselves into a relationship and to walk away is like losing a huge part of yourself and getting over that is gonna hurt and b extremely hard and we don't want to deal with that by choice, its human nature.0