Broke up about 9 weeks ago.
Right now I'm in the time period when I go a few days without thinking about her. I feel happy and content an acceptance that I will never get her back. And I tell myself its okay. It helps when I talk to this other ex thats been talking to me a lot.
But then it seems like out of nowhere something will happen, a movie, a song, most recently the church gospel that will remind me of her and I can't stop thinking about her. This lasts for a couple days. I fight so hard not to text/call her.
How do you get past this period? How do I get it where I dont let words or a movie bother me anymore? I hate it.
Has anyone ever had a similar experience? what did you do?
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You must go through a long period of recovery time with no communication with the ex, avoiding seeing/hearing anything related to that person. In my experience though, I can only get completely past it when someone else comes into the picture. You start thinking so much about that new person that the remainings of the ex will get lost, finally.1
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