I love him, and he said he love me too. He's nice to me a lot of times. But he never give me much time or wanna do anything with me, but his friends. I don't know how to tell him, cuz I'm afraid he think I'm such a demanding gf. I just need his attention sometime. A lot of time, he just give me a kiss, and said he love me so much, then gone. I feel like he afraid spending money on me. He talk about money a lot sometime. But I always help him either half or more if we hang out. We've been together almost 2 years now. I love him, but I'm not happy in this relationship, less and less, day by day. Should I breaks with him? I'm not sure if I can stay alone. I'll miss him so bad. But I'd rather feel lonely when I'm alone, then feeling lonely when I'm not alone. I need some advices pleaseee.. Thank you so much.
Most Helpful Guy
Well it sounds like to me your boyfriend just likes to keep you there kind of as a comfort zone. Now this may sound bad but it's what goes through are male minds. If he loved you, if he really liked you, he would always want to know what your up to and always wanting to see if you two wanna do something. He will love to spend time with you and share all the exciting moments with you Because that's just what boyfriends do. But if he's doing this, act like a mirror. Call up your friends to see what there up to, go it and have some fun. Really try and make him put an effort into the relationship to show that he does care and wants to spend time with you. You've already shown that you have put in a big effort to try and make things work. If things don't get better after awhile of acting like a mirror towards him. Then I think it's pretty obvious
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Most Helpful Girl
Im sorry it sounds really hard. Maybe you should try pick up a hobby you really love before you do anything drastic. Something you can channel your emotion into rather than be focused on him all the time. Its not to say you do not love him but its good to find balance in your life with were you invest all your energy. He sound like he love you and the more you do the more fun you will become. Sports are a great hobby for making friends and sweating all the emotions out.
And when it comes to spending time together... think quality, not quantity.
Hope this has helped1