My sister and my Ex have started going out and I seriously don't mind it at all, we ended things on a mutual note and before they started going out they asked me if I was ok with it. and I said whatever since it's none of my business anyway now a lot of people are bringing it to my attention that what my sister did was "Fucked up" and "Betrayal" I don't see it as any of that but it's starting to get too me since people just won't shut up about it how can I get them to stop talking about it? should I just tell them to fuck off even if they're my close friends? I don't know I'm just confused and annoyed since I don't see anything wrong with it it's not like he's my personal property that was "Stolen"
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I think you're friends imagine greater hostility between your sister, you and your ex than exists. Were you, your sister, and some of your friends to participate in an activity together wherein you can demonstrate the persistence of the positive relationship between you and your sister, it might cause enough dissonance with your friends' standing opinion that they are shaken from it. I say this in consideration of that very few of my negative impressions of people have persisted after spending time with them in a friendly manner.0
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