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Ooo boy. To start, she sounds immature. The passive-aggressiveness, the comments she makes yet the behavior she displays, the making out with your friend ALL tell me that she is a little immature and incapable of a healthy, legitimate relationship with ANYONE at this time. That's not to say she's a bad person. It's just that everyone matures relationship-wise in their own time. She sounds like she's still not quite at a level mentally to handle mature feelings and relationships. I think there's a chance she was trying to make you jealous, but I also think there's a good chance that she just wasn't even considering you when she did it, and was simply thinking of herself. She sounds a little unhinged to me, especially considering she hangs out with your friends. Usually that's a sign of a girl who is a little emotionally unstable. I don't mean in a serious, scary way. I just mean she might not be as 'together' as some other females. Honestly I think right now there is no hope for the two of you to have a real relationship because she sounds too all over the place and uncertain of herself to handle that. I think she probably does have a thing for you, but I think even more so she probably likes your attention. To me this sounds like a case of a female who wants your attention and affection, but doesn't want to commit to you, either. If I were you, I would try to move on and cut ties because I don't see this working out favorably in the end. Plus, she made out with your friend. That's just crappy- on BOTH of their parts.