I talked to this guy ( he's 19 I'm 17- almost 18. He's exactly 1 1/2 years older) for months. We never officially dated. But he started asking me to spend the night at his place. I told him Im not that kind of girl and he said he could change that.
It finally boiled down to him saying he was more important than the kids I was baby sitting, and I should come see him. He disrespected my faith. Basically asked me for sex and tried to pressure me more when I said no. And told me to lie to my parents to cover up going to spend the night with him. I told him I couldn't talk to him anymore. I didn't tell him all the reasons, just that we were too different for how much I liked him and I knew I was going to get hurt.( I never did go spend the night with him or have sex with him, although I did consider it which was the breaking point in my mind. If he could make me consider it when he wasn't there, what would happen if he was there? And I'll be honest that scared me)
I have all these reasons to hate him. Especially him disrespecting my faith. But I still think about him every day. It's been over a month. I still think about what would happen if I said I was sorry and asked him if we could start over
Why can't I forget him?
Any tips to get over him?
Most Helpful Guy
dont give him a second chance:P not until he grows up at least. he's an immature dumb ass by default because he's still a teenager. if you value your faith then hold to it strong because i guarantee you once you break your faith for him you will feel so fucking shitty:P not being mean its just the truth. and he isn't worth it. 1 month isn't long enough to get over him because you keep leaving yourself wondering "what if?". you gotta stop wondering what would've been and accept the fact that you made the right choice of walking the other way which means that "what if" is irrelevant in your life. you didn't lose anything you gained a lot of things. you gained self-respect, hard to come by these days especially a girl your age, you also gained a sense of maturity and being true to yourself. not giving in to douche bag demands. i mean doesn't that just sound stupid? if you were to give in to a douche bag? im proud of you. dont feel bad and dont think you missed out on anything because if you haven't realized it yet you just dodged a HUGE fucking bullet. seriously, good for you:)0
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Most Helpful Girl
You deserve better. When you get with someone, make sure they respect you, completely. If you let them get away with being disrespectful towards you they'll continue to disrespect you. You're young, make sure you know what you want from a relationship. You're too smart to let anyone take advantage of you. He's not good enough to waste you thoughts and energy on him.0