Why do ex girlfriends cut you out of their lives?
Just cut me off.
Most Helpful Girl
Probably because she doesn't want flashbacks from the past relationship or whatever. I broke up with my ex and we don't keep in contact at all. I don't believe in being friends with an ex right after a break up. My ex broke up with me in March and since then we haven't said a word to each other and I think that's how its supposed to be. If someone breaks up with me or I break up with them I cut them off as simple as that. And if my ex goes to my school I just act like he doesn't exist as simple as that. Plus my ex broke up with me but he didn't give me a good explanation it was pretty much I guess to hard for him which I don't understand why when he didn't do anything. Some exes can't remain to be friends with there ex-bf or ex-gf it just doesn't work like that, I don't even see my ex bf and I being friends. We aren't friends, we aren't enemies, were like strangers with some memories. Like what if you decide to be friends with ur ex you could have feeling of them coming back into your head that's why I wouldn't do it. Its hard to remain friends with an ex its just not possible its to difficult and then how do you move on you can't. Its like being stuck in quick sand and you are just begging for a way to get out. My ex hurt me, treated me badly like I wasn't a priority in his life at all so we just ignored each other after he broke up with me and made me cry. I mean I needed time to heal and I believe that break up was for the best. I was sore for a couple of days but I managed to heal and I'm happy I did.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Haha, this is SO TRUE!!!
Ex #1 - Mutual break up on good terms, spoke regularly for weeks but the second she get's herself a new bf I'm deleted on Facebook never for us to communicate again.
Ex #2 - Bad break up, she hit me lots and was an aggressive person in general so I broke it off. She begged me to come back for months and harassed me with constant texts and calls. Finally she get's a new bf and I'm immediately deleted off FB by her and cut out (a good thing)!
Ex #3 - She breaks up with me because I'm too young for her (I'm 22, she's 27). A few weeks later she see's me in town holding hands with another girl and texts me saying "Who's that girl you're with, she looks too young for you. Do you not have any feelings for me still". She then asks to meet up. I reply 'errr that's my new girlfriend I was with". She straight away deletes me off Facebook and stops replying to any of my texts. So irrational...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE