Update : I meant texted not "tested" btw. And another question I had was why am I not over him? And would it be bad if I took him back? That is, if he ever wanted me back... be harsh if needed. Thanks
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Because as your first you naturally loved him, thats usually how it is. Your feelings for him is normal, but he isn't for you. First of all, none of his friends should have been involved; that shows immaturity on his part. Also he doesn't love you as much as you love him, because if he did he would have done all that he could to work it out with you. Being negative is not a good image for any relationship, but to make someone disrespect you as he did, no its not that serious. My opinion is to move on (i know that its not going to be simple as you love him) find someone that is willing to work on bringing you out of your negativity, because they want to be with you.