Basically yesterday I went through a really rough break up with the guy I've been with for three years. I love him to pieces but he had changed so much and I was miserable. I was doing ok I guess until it was the night and I felt so alone and couldn't stop crying and this morning I'm really really tired and sad.. I don't know what to do with myself. How have you guys dealt with break ups and do you have any tips for the evening because thats when its hardest?
I've already blocked him and deleted him on everything.
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Honestly, I think only time can heal things. I had some of the best experiences around this time like went on an amazing vacation and saw one of my favorite artists at their concert but that stuff only distracted me for that day. For me when my ex and I broke up, I went through a series of stages. I went from barely being affected, to crying, to complete anger, to semi-angry, to being ok, and now I'm happy. I can talk to him, hear his name, not be afraid to run into him around town... I am truly over this guy and truly forgive him for all that we went through. It took about 10 months but that's probably because I made the stupid mistake of still talking to him in the beginning. I'm not sure if these are the "healthiest" things to do but I cried if I needed to, I acknowledged my feelings (anger, sadness), I went out with a friend every week just to have girl time, talked to anyone who would listen, wrote down my thoughts and feelings, constantly listened to music, watched things that truly make me laugh (impractical jokers.. you should check it out). I looked up some ways to get over someone and one idea was to write a letter to them but don't send it. Basically state all that you're thankful for. It doesn't have to be a bashing session but include the good and the bad. Breakups SUCK but this too shall pass, good luck =)0