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How can I move on from a break up?
What Girls Said 3
First, life goes on without them and they probably didn't stop to think about it. A break up stings really bad but know that everything happens for a reason. It might not come to you now, but you learn something from every relationship that you can use to make yourself better.
Focus on career or a hobby, start to excersise and make yorself better for you. Don't think of it as you seperating from someone, think of it as you reconstructing yourself so that you can become a better person.1
To move on from a breakup you need to do a self reconstruction. Basically Rediscover yourself and love yourself the way you did before you got into a relationship. Because if you dont go through that process then you will be getting into relationships on rocky ground. Love you first and as soon as youve started to lvoe yourself you'll be happy and if you want you'll be ready to enter a relationship again.1
It depends on what you may need but it takes time. The best thing to do is stay busy with work, school, be with family and friends go do something new you haven't done before. Meet bew people. And best to get rid of anything that might be a reminder if it just beings pain. Give your self time to fet mad be sad cry it out of needed. Reflect on your part of what you might of done and grow from this. Then after some time when ever your ready you get back in the game but right now it the healing stages and getting over her.1
What Guys Said 2
Lisa_Zhang got one thing right. Most times, you've done nothing that was wrong. If she wasn't happy with something about you, or wanted anything changed, she probably would have told you. Most times. it's not about maturity, either. You could be quite responsible, capable and talented, and it can still happen.
I say to most men don't look for a reason. They don't need a reason, and you'll just go crazy trying to blame yourself and look for one. I've even said that to friends whose wives have divorced them without giving a reason (that happens too).
If there really was a reason, you would know about it and she would have made it obvious, hoping you would fix it. Sure, we can all make some improvement to ourselves, and she probably could too. We can all become better in some way; more charming, presentable, charismatic, accomplished, confident, better communicators (verbally or by body language) or whatever.
In your position, I'd go out and get banged ASAP, and forget about her. Do what you can to be more presentable and tempting when the next one comes along. Don't blame yourself.1
I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, No Matter What You Do, Time Is A Huge Factor, Over Time You Will Feel Better, But Make Sure You Continue Doing Things That Make You Happy & Occupy Your Time. When You Start Feeling Up To It, Then Start Talking To Other Girls...1
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