Here it is in a nutshell: my ex starts contacting me soon after he dumps me, wanting to hang out, emailing me on my vacation, got mad when he heard that I wanted to cut him out of my life and demanded to know why, kept saying he was looking forward to seeing me... then said no when I asked him if he wanted to get back together. He said " I love being with you, we are very compatible, you are cool and fun and I care about you deeply". He freaked when I told him I wanted to cut off contact, wanting to know for how long? What the hell is going on? I think he's a little nuts?
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Considering he dumped you? That is weird. I don't know if he was hoping to get a reaction that you aren't giving him by doing it, or if he just thought you guys could slip right into friend mode. Just tell him to back off as you have to work through things. If he doesn't respect that, then block him. If he doesn't get it then? Probably getting into the obsessive category and you may need to take precautions.1