i left him. he hasn't contacted me, i haven't contacted him. but i want to! but it seems as if everything i read it says "DO NOT TEXT YOUR EX!" and im thinking how can i get him back if i can't talk to him? so i took internet advice and proceeded to doing the no contact rule. i just miss him, and i was the one who left.
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With the limited information you provided, it's truly difficult to garner a response. That said, you need to realize something immediately and that is, after a breakup takes place, it is extremely difficult to get that original feeling back from the one who felt slighted and even more so difficult for them to fully trust you again. The age old "don't cry wolf" adage comes into play for this in terms of that if you don't want the breakup to happen, don't say things out of either spite, anger, or emotional response.
Frankly, if someone broke up, initiated a no contact rule, didn't contact me to either talk it out or apologize, and then, all of a sudden, in five days wanted me back, I would think her out of her mind and wouldn't respond other than to tell her good luck and perhaps we can be friends down the line. The bouncing behavior of love/like/not like/breakup and reverse is something that men rarely, if ever, tolerate. I wish you the best of luck though but, in the future, don't follow what anyone else tells you to do and follow your heart/use your brain (and that includes myself).0