I Am 25 and she is 22 we been together for around 5years. she Dump me 6 months ago. ( i even went no contact for a month) In this 6 months i try fix my relationship because I really love her. I won't blame her for what she did to me. we both had some small problem like normal people have. but i never thought she would leave me like this. I missed her so much lets say am a needy its because I love her. because of her I did sacrifice my best time of my life that i could build a good career and future.
she never had a good friend and she dont even want to go out with her friends , so some times i tell her to go out with her friends for a change and get to know new friends but she never did. she always complain about everyone , even she hate her family sometimes. I am the one who make her strong and make her cool down for all of this reasons. I explain her how to be with friends and family so she could have a good time them.
after she left me. She make lots of friends went out. she travel a lot/(Alone). she post so many photos on instagram show to the whole world and to my friends she never had a freedom but now she is free to do anything. I was shocked because I never treat her like she was in jail. its look like she came out from Jail. she said she dont want to bewith me anymore and now she is really happy and she promised me she never come back she feel suffocated with me. )< after this i start to move on i was sad and still i am but i felt day by day my pain go less, yet i missed her sometimes really bad n feel soo much love for her.
My question is !
We had a strong 5 years old Relationship. How Could she be so happy and do this all at once? AM I that Horrible for her after All? why do i have to pay for what she did to me?
sorry for my bad English
Most Helpful Girl
You didn't do anything, from what you've said. Some people, especially young people need time by themselves so that they can develop and find out who they are individually.
Its not that you did anything to her. It was simply that her entire identity was being your girlfriend. She's simply finding herself as a single person.
You should enjoy your freedom and attempt to do the same.1
Most Helpful Guy
I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, iHonestly Think She Was Already Not Into The Relationship Anymore Even While You Guys Are Dating, So Leaving & Saying All That Mean Stuff Was Easy For Her. iReally Do Think It Will Hit Her Eventually Sometime Down The Road. Just Cut All Contact & Self Heal...1