me and my fiance met 3 1/2 years ago, knowing i had kids we dated... i was a yr out of my divorce from previous marriage and was still pretty messed up... i loved her since day one and i slept with my ex wife... i made a mistake but she stayed and we were happy after we talked and everything was fine... well here recently we have been fighting alot... mostly me and accusing her of cheating because she was so distant... she suffers from bipolar depression and recently just got off her thyroid meds... and she is working a lot and she is super stressed out... i know i can make her happy but she seems to think its too late and that she feels it will nvr work... i didn't kno how bad her depression bothered her bc she never really wantd to talk about it... when things bothered her she expected me to know and figure it out... we were happy for 2 1/2 years and now all of a sudden she changes and says she doesn't feel the same way... ik she still loves me nd cares about me but do i still have a chance... please help
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You have to try getting past thinking you can still make her happy. She has made her decision and feels that it's too late. Now you need to back off, respect her choice and focus on yourself. She may feel she made the wrong decision one day, but not as long as you try to convince her that she should be with you. All the confrontation is what broke up the relationship. Give her space, focus on your own well-being and try to heal. I'm going through the same thing right now, and though it's tough, the healthiest thing is to self-reflect. NOT obsess over them and try to change their feelings. Either she will come back and you can consider resuming the relationship once you have a better perspective, or she won't and you'll be on the mend and eventually be okay with how things are.
There's nothing wrong with fighting for a relationship you're really committed to, but once you've tried, it's up to her. You gave it your all, she'll see that regardless of her decision.0