anyone else ever done this or just me?
Most Helpful Guy
You can't really surround yourself with someone who believes that "you are his toy". Not only is he a complete joke of a human being. But, you deserve better.
I'm speaking from recent experience. Just yesterday, I called my ex out on the numerous amount of mindgames she has been playing over the months. I gave her an ultimatum of if she didn't want me to contact her ever again, I would respect her wishes. She responded by saying "Please do not message me again."
At a certain point, some people just can't be reasoned with and you need to decide that your self worth is greater than being with someone who treats you so poorly.
Most Helpful Girl
I get why your very heartbroken I get this feeling that he was your first love, thought he was the one or you were broken before so he fill that brokenness with happiness that's why your so in love with him but you two are broken up and what you told me he sounds like a douchebag you sound loving and caring and for him to treat you like that is stupid, I know you will hurt your love one at times I do it my bf has done it to me but there a line and when the person crosses the line you can't give them a other chance your ex cross it and you have to face the fact that you can't be what he wants so be it you can find a better guy you look really pretty so I think you can find a good guy :).