I broke up with my boyfriend of two months at the beginning of the year. We've seen each other a few times and I asked him to go to brunch yesterday since I haven't seen him and he was all for it. So I'm at the restaurant and he hasn't shown; I called and he said he overslept so I told him he had 20 minutes and I'm leaving. He shows up 10 minutes later and we eat. He's smiling a lot, flirting, his knees are bumping against mine, we're laughing and he made compliments about my appearance AND paid for the meal. After we go for a walk to a park and we're sitting and enjoying ourselves when he makes a comment about my chest and how he was going to keep things to himself. I noticed a hair on his neck and touched it and I could tell he was getting hard. So he and I were nose to nose, playing with each other's hands, etc. So I mentioned friends with benefits and he said it's tempting and he doesn't think it's a good idea because obligations and what if he's seeing someone or I see someone and he wants to be together one weekend and I'm seeing someone else. He mentioned he also did it before and it didn't work out. Then I kept saying let's go make out and he said earlier he had a thing so he walked me to my car, we held hands and he tried to leave and I wouldn't let go because I wanted him to kiss me. Instead he didn't and said it wasn't fun anymore. He kissed me on the forehead and gave me a hug. I text to tell him sorry for being discreet and he text back around 11pm, "You mean opposite of?" And then text me at 7 am saying he had an interesting night at the bar with his friends. What's going on? Does he miss me?
- He misses youVote A
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- You're reading too much into itVote C
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He obviously would date you again, but he doesn't want to be just sex buddies. I think he is telling you he really likes you and it would be hard for him to want to see you but have you be with someone else. Basically he is saying it's all or nothing. Why did you break up with him in the first place? You obviously are attracted to him and still want to have a physical relationship with him. So I am really confused as to why you would break up with him?0
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