he is my first love... i was and i still deeply in love with him i broke up with him because what he wanted from me is sex, instead of showing me the world he insist every time to take me to his home!! he didn't love me he hurt me a lot... but despite knowing all that i can't get over him we broke up about 2 month but i still think of him every single night and every time i try to meet a new person or just get out with friend i cry when i get home i thought that its gonna be easy to get over him after all what he did to me but i can't i see his face at all the faces i swear that i try to forget him but i can't... he deleted me from facebook, he didn't give a fuck why i broke up with him he played with my feeling but i can't stop loving him !!! please help me HOW CAN I FORGET HIM
Please help how can I get over him?
What Guys Said 3
Just wait and then you will forget him2
What Girls Said 4
Talk it out with friends you trust. It's okay to cry about these things. It takes a lot of time, effort, and patience to get over a first love. Of course you still love this guy, but as time goes by, the more you think about what he did to you, you'll soon understand that he's a pathetic dimshit who's not worth your tears. Pain will cease and you'll grow strong from your past. This guy iisn't worth your effort. I hope you'll find a guy who will treat you with respect.2
I wouldn't blame you really I wouldn't want to be with someone who just wanted sex from me and not a well balanced relationship. Give it time and you will get over him with baby steps. I got over my ex but it wasn't because he wanted sex from me it was because he couldn't be the effort into the relationship and I was always the one trying. You don't need someone like him honestly they're are plenty more fish in the sea. Give it about me 5 months and you'll be over him as soon as possible. I understand it hurts but your heart is going to need a lot of time to heal. My ex played with my feelings too he led me on and then he left me like I was nothing but I've learned a lot from my last relationship and what I deserve and what I want in a guy. It took me 5 months to get over mine it wasn't easy but it was worth it, we just walk right past each other and don't say a single word. Trust me your feelings for him will go away with time I know mine did for my ex. Act like you don't see him if he goes to your school or whatever pretend like you don't see him like he isn't even there if you find him looking at you then look away that's what I do. Just walk like you don't even see him and don't go back to him either because I did that once and I got hurt I was stupid. Keep your head and don't let your tiara fall hold your head up high. My ex hurt me emotionally but the ways he treated me. Your feelings for him will go away with time or even months it all just takes time. You might be sore for a while and weak in your knees I know I was but I just took it slow. You made a great decision I never would be with someone who just wanted me for sex I would've left him. A lot of young women wouldn't do that some would stay. I can't stand guys that just want sex in a relationship its like being used as a sex toy it makes me sick. My ex was my first love to until he changed and started drinking I just couldn't handle it anymore but I understand how that can be hard. I wish you good luck.0
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I'll pray for you. You need it. You're not the only one that has had this happen to them. Good luck with your life abd make smarter decisions from now on. I will never understand it either how a man can use a woman's body and be abusive to her still either. I'm sorry it happened to you. You don't deserve it, right? Please be strong and forget this guy. Try to. He's not going to change.2
Time time time. You made the decision that thousands of others can't make. Seriously. I've never met someone who made the right decision when it came to their first love. Please please please keep going on this track. Just delete him from all social media for awhile and his number so you won't see him anymore. It's not out of immaturity or harshness, it's just that blocking them out of your life is easiest at a time when you shouldn't be reminded of them. It will also help with the urge to constantly check to see if he has someone new.0
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