I had dated my ex-girlfriend for about a year and a half. To which we become very serious, but she wanted to move in and I didn't. However, this became a deal break for her, and she ended it back in May.
Over the summer, we rekindled the relationship a tad, but it was never fully there. One day, I found out that she was dating another guy, and was actually in a relationship with him. Knowing him through a friend; I reached out to inform him. To which he responded by being shock that she was cheating on him with me. He ended it with her, I ended it with her, and she texted me one the most horrifying texts that I've ever seen in my life. Bad enough to where after telling my brother about its content. He forced me to stay at my Aunt and Uncles place (because he doesn't live in the same city.) for a while.
After all of this happening around July 1st. She's now texting me about once a week that she loves me, or misses me. How do I get her to just go away? I want to block her number, but I'm afraid she may text me saying that she'll be coming over like she tried once, and I had to tell her to go away or I'd call the cops.
Any thoughts on what to do? I'd rather not have to go through getting a restraining order, and I don't think I have enough content to do so.
Most Helpful Girl
Wow. Crazy crazy bitch.
You must learn from other psycho exes though, many have actually carried out their threats, or become stalkers. These kinda exes are hard to make go away, unless you do something drastic. You hear of the crazy dudes going to kill their ex or the crazy women going to kill the ex or his new girl or something.
Get a new number, just give it to people you trust who you know won't pass it on to ANYBODY, then you can carry that one with you instead. Your old phone will still ring, and you can just check messages whenever.0
Most Helpful Guy
Love makes you do crazy things. Its hard to stay rational in moments like this man, I totally get where she's coming from. I was in her shoes. She didn't love me anymore and I couldn't wrap the idea around my head. Hell I still can't. I still cry, break down, see no one else at my side that fit as perfectly as she did. Its just something that happens in our minds that can totally consume our lives. What you need to provide is closure. Something I wasn't given..0