My boyfriend and I have had a few issues recently, but he doesn't talk to me about stuff so I end up moaning to get a response out of him, which makes me feel bad so i guess i bought it on myself. He used to buy me flowers every friday, wanted the same things with a family one day and a house etc and he just wanted to be with me etc, didn't care about anyone else as his a little bit of a loner and even he can admit that.
We have always got on so well.. Recently we have hit the three year mark, but in the last 2 weeks we have had about 3 discussions, which he sees as arguments.
We went out at the weekend and things, then yesterday after one of our discussions he told me that he decided he wanted to follow a different career path which is exciting to him, leave the country and travel for the job pretty much 90% of the role therefore 'wants to be on his own' and finally decided to admit that his not very happy and wants to split up as it's for the best.
I haven't stopped him going out or anything, he plays sports and went out drinking on Saturday night, "like the old days". Then rather than being with me to sort last night out he saw the guy from Saturday down the pub?
I am literally so heart broken, i have stayed home from work today to work from home, cried all night. I will admit considering he wasn't answering my calls, telling me where he was (he went to the pub with his mate to watch football?) i was pretty much text/call stalking last night.
I then got one text explaining the above at about 9/10pm and haven't heard anything since. I have text him lots of stuff last night, and the last text i explained i will give him space now so he won't hear from me anymore. I am hoping he will contact me, but from what he has said he won't.
I feel so forgotten, his not communicated with me at all, completely cut me off. 3 years and for what? 1 month ago we was celebrating our three year anniversary.
I can't believe this, my heart has shattered.
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Here are the possibilities I see:
1. Someone else got a hold of his phone and is playing you. Relaying the information you currently have by seeding that information in other sources.
2. Cheating. It is a possibility. He's breaking things off cheaply because he can't face you, yet, his heart is no longer in it.
3. He really is a no good bastard who is doing exactly what he is saying he is going to do and doesn't care anymore. There had to be symptoms over the years, but is love truly blind?
Well... one of those three, probably.1