My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me through a text message saying "I wanna call it quits" should I go and see her or not?

My girlfriend broke up with me through a text but I feel like a 5 year relationship can't just end with a text message. Should I go see her and end things the right way even though we are already done? Or should I leave things like this and just forget about her? It has been 2 weeks since we broke up but to be honest It just feels like we got into a fight. What should I do?


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  • Ask her she might be attention seeking to see if you care

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What Girls Said 2

  • I think you have the right to end things correctly if you want closure. WHO DOES ENDS A FIVE YEAR RELATIONSHIP THAT WAY!! Doesn't it make you question what kind of person you've been dating for the past five years.

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    • Yes I agree with you apparently she lost interest and we hadn't seen each other for 2 weeks already so she was far ahead and didn't care about it

  • I think everyone is entitled to some sort of resolution... but that kind of break up is cold. You probably won't be able to get what you need form talking to her again, which isn't fair to you at all. You might want to let this one go - it doesn't seem worth it if she didn't see your relationship worth it enough for her to talk to you about ending things first

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What Guys Said 6

  • I'm Going To Give You My Professional Unlicensed Opinion, iFeel As If You Should Leave It Alone, iKnow You Want Closure But Dont Go Looking For It...

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    • Can you elaborate more?

    • Yeah. Please elaborate.

      You don't just shut off feelings especially for a girl you dated five years.

      I'm tired of everyone having this same answer for everything.

      This is why relationships are becoming more and more few.

  • That's a little cold for her. I would be pissed especially since you've been together five years!
    Has she shown you this lack of respect of you for a long point in time?

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  • Fuck her, man. She ditched you by text she's not worth getting a job to wipe your ass.

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  • Go and see her. It deserves a face to face

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  • I think you deserve an explanation for sure.

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    • Most men who expect a reason or explanation will be sadly disappointed. If I ever got a reason (which was rare), it was always bullshit and fiction.
      They don't even need a reason to walk out of a marriage. Women don't need a reason, and rarely have one.

  • I say don't see her. Get an escort for a day and "coincidentally" meet her at a local hang out with your escort in hand. That'll set her off and you will win.

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