I feel like my boyfriend wants to break up by the way he's been acting and yesterday I got mad at him cause he did something that hurt me and he said if u want break up then just break up with me if he wants break up why can t he just tell me instead of pitying me?
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give him what he wants and go ghost on him
not every guy is assertive, strong or socially adept enough to know how to properly end a relationship. some of them are very avoidant and not mature enough to deal with the uncomfort that comes with hurting someones feelings and ending things. so they will purposefully act undesirable in attempt to get you to be the one to end it. that way they can avoid any confrontation by making you do what they want.
think about if you really want a guy like this. basically he's showing you that he is not the kind of guy who can stand up in face of adversity (assuming that ur reaction to the breakup would be a meltdown). he's not going to tell u bc that takes a level of maturity that he probably doesn't have. so do urself a favor and don't let a guy be in ur world if he's not gonna act like he wants to be there. what he won't do another man will2