I haven't been very well recently, and I have been home alone, so I haven't been going out. Anyway, two nights ago I got taken into hospital and he came, which was good of him. but last night after him asking me how I was feeling, he went MIA for the rest of the day/night, he finally messaged me around 1 am and he just says hi how are you, so I called him about half an hour later, and he picks up so I just made conversation and he says that he's at a girls house and hell call me when he's home, he did and I dumped him, I just think if you have a girlfriend then you shouldn't be going to girls houses or at least tell me? I don't know. I just wasn't comfortable with it, because I know if the tables were turned, he wouldn't have felt happy I was at a guys house.
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With out knowing the guy its hard to say if it was just a random visit or something else.
But do you know this girl? Is she a long time friend of his?
I have girls I'm friends with and when I do speak to them or hang out I normally just talk about my girlfriend or advice on something to do with my gf.
If you have a feeling that this guy is a cheater or know he has cheated in the past then I say go with your gut... But if he is a good guy I say trust him I know it can be hard and you risk getting hurt but sometimes you need to risk these things to really trust someone.