I have been with my boyfriend for a year. He had broken up with his girlfriend of 3 years 1 year before we met. He said he loved her but was over her now.
Recently I went through his messages and there was a message from her saying that she deleted him on Facebook because it hurt her to see photos of him all the time. He replied saying that he will always have feelings for her and that he is constantly comparing her to me.
When I asked him about it he said I took it the wrong way and he was just empathising with her. He said he loves me now but it makes me I comfortable that he compares me to her. Is he over her? Or does he love me?
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Was this his first love? It's natural to always have a special place in your heart for someone you spent so much time with. 3 years is a long time. And he loved her for all those years. Can you really blame him for comparing you to her? I wouldn't take it personally. Have more confidence in yourself and your relationship. He's with you now. He chose to be with you. That matters a lot. Be happy that you have someone you can be in a relationship with.1
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