I dated this guy for 1 year and like a few months. Not that long but not that short. He broke up with me and I'm trying to get over him and its hard. I at least want to be friends but he doesn't. Is it that he's hurt or is it that he moved on? I don't get it I asked him and he said it was very easy to move on and that it took him like one day. But is that possible? I mean i was his first everything (kiss, gf, etc). He also said that he has absolutely no feelings for me. It hurt a lot. I don't know what to think can someone really move on just like that? Or what? He also treats me like a stranger and when I try to talk to him he looks at me weird. So basically he's a real dick now. Should I stop trying to be friends?
Most Helpful Guy
With the fact that he broke up with you I'm leaning toward the likelihood that his feels for you had been declining for a while, but it's possible that he moved on and still may have had feeling for you the day it ended. Some people move on faster than other. For me after a relationship ends that it. I don't look back of dwell on what was.1
Most Helpful Girl
It probably happened over time.
Stop trying to force a friendship he obviously doesn't want.0